Try hard to be in your shoe

最近我和大姐的沟通出现了一些问题。

一直以来，我都是在扮演“听”的角色。我尝试以你的观点去了解你的心情和处境，用耐心和爱心去明白，关怀你。而且也尽量配合在精神上给于鼓励。但是我不能避免偶尔在想法和理念方面会和你有所不同。当我给以一些不一样的意见时，你的情绪就会突然的转变，一下子失控。好好的一场姐妹谈论，往往就变成了辩论，然后你就会把我过去无心的错误，一下子全搬出来指证我，最后闹得不欢而散，把彼此之间的关系搞得很僵。

我每天都有很多的事情要处理，还要拨出时间去聆听你蔢媳之间的问题。我每次都有配合，很用心去听，甚至试着去穿你的鞋子（虽然我不可能穿的下）。

对不起，也许我是太理性了。如果你再找我谈，我会试用感情进入你的内心世界里。

我真的很在乎我们的姐妹情。

也许会搁上好一段时间吧！

Posted by: ellepo

i m sick...

I am sick, of being me....

That's embarrassing!!!

Know what? I broke Jane's bed.

The weather last night was damned hot. I turned on her bedroom's air cond., relaxing myself on her bed. Half-way on facebook enjoyed viewing Tionia and her sweeties' Australia trip photos, I heard a loud sound and suddenly found myself was tumbled down.

Oh! Oh! The bed is broken!!!

I took a close look at the bed and found that a few pieces of the long, thin piece of metal attached to the main support were broken. The metal parts are all welded and not screwed to the main support. It's obviously not built to stand my body weight!!!Lao Lao quickly used nylon string to tighten all the broken metal pieces to the main support for temporary use or else Jane has to switch to sleeping on the floor.

When seeing this, Liang was talking humorously to himself: pity your bed la cheh, not only it has to support giant size human, it has to accomodate all those animals that spread around you. Sigh......
Oops, I'm sorry.

Jane, that's embarrassing!!!

posted by:ellepo

Legal Festive Robbers

I was stopped by a police at a road block yesterday afternoon and he accused me for not having my seat belt fastened.
I had been using a seat belt since the very first day I drove a car irrespective of police presence. Don't you all know that I am a good citizen and I comply to the traffic law? For my own safety benefits too....
The police kept asking me the same question : You just answer me, did you use your seat belt?
Inside my heart : What a stupid question? See with your own eyes la....my seat belt is properly, comfortably worn....
I answered him : YES
He kept repeating the same question and my answer is still firm : YES
Emm..... I got it! The smell of corruption......
They are just the "legal festive robbers"

Monday Blues!!!

I hate Mondays.....
I am feeling so reckless and do not have the mood to do anything.
I've yawned countless times since this morning......
My head is getting heavier
My eyes can hardly open
I feel very tired and weak
Oh! Am I getting sick?
Or it is just Monday Blues???

posted by: ellepo

SAD

My emotions these few days are beyond control, going up and down like a rollercoaster.

Out of nothing, there'll be a sudden anger outburst and the problem is I hurt the people I love the most.

I'm feeling pretty sad. I know it affects all of us and quite disruptive in a way to our life pattern.

Tell me, anyone?

What should I do???

posted by: ellepo