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3月18日是堂姐哈莉雅-Halia (Ginger) 的破蛋日。这么多年来这是第一次两家人一起出外庆祝。那一种感觉真的很不一样，不懂得怎么形容，总之是很开心，很温暖，就像一家人。其实本来就是一家人嘛! 哈哈! =p

妈咪很客气，说她请客，一来为堂姐庆祝生日，二来为堂姐和我的考试成绩欢庆。看得出老爸也很开心，印象中好像是第一次看他给红包! ( 不错耶! 有进步。Ginger, 不管红包是大是小，有大伯的祝福，你一定会很幸福的!!! =) )
晚餐过后我们到老爸的咖啡店去唱生日歌，吹蛋糕。刚好小姑值班，也加入我们一起闹。

Ginger, 两张没得找了，你将进入人生的另一个阶段。无论你选择怎样的路，一定要勇敢的走下去，要对自己有信心。我们永远支持你! 加油!

Tada! 翁家有女初成长。

许个愿。小姑说:"希望我快点出嫁!".....

妈咪答:"那我很快就可以抱孙!"..... Ginger, 你呢? 许了什么愿?

哇! 好温馨，好幸福噢!

翁家三个leng lui... Leng le? 甜le? Haha! =p

Leng lui变相? 跟蛋糕过不去? ’Piang!!!'

我们都是一家人!

Cousins...

Posted by : Wing

I Lost My Path

This morning I met my ex-Bio teacher. I chattered with her for a few minutes and found out that Form 6 Bio students have to do research. OMG! Even a tiny caterpillar will make me scream and jump.
I'm lost again. Should I go on with Form 6 as planned? Can anyone tell me what I should do? Please help!!!

Straight A's

I overhead the conversation of a group of SPM school leavers, it sounds…..

A: Eh! Did you hear that xxx get straight A’s?
B: Em….. yup. Her performance in school was so so, and I heard she beats a lot of
her classmates who used to do much better than her.
C: Ya. That’s why she’s so proud and treats us like transparent.
A: Her English is so broken.
C: BM too. Sucks…
B: She’s so Ah Lian. Not pro at all!!!
A: @.@
B: O.O
C: T.T

My dear children, the success in life is not measured by how many A’s you scored in SPM but by how much you bring out the best in you.
I came across a quote: “What you are is a gift from God. What you become is your gift to God”.
At the end of our life’s journey, what matters most is not what we get but what we become in terms of a strong and positive character.
Continue to maximize your potential and build a better you.
I wish you all greatness and success in your journey of life.
加油!!!

Posted by : Ellepo

Without Him

Without Him I could do nothing
Without Him I’d surely fail
Without Him I would be drifting
Like a ship without a sail

Without Him I would be dying
Without Him I’d be enslaved
Without Him life would be worthless
But with Jesus thank God I’m saved

Oh Jesus, oh Jesus
Do you know Him today
Please don't turn Him away
Oh Jesus, my Jesus
Without Him how lost I would be

-Mylon R. Lefevre

My Path

After a few days of confusion and deep thoughts, I had decided on what to do. Once I have made up my mind, I should be firm and work hard to fight for it… Thanks to my love ones who had guided me through all these while…
Thanks God for I am quite happy and satisfied with my SPM results. My hard work, sweat and tears had finally paid off by getting 9A’s for my SPM. I was touched. Praise the Lord.
A big big hug to Jee who is always there for me through thicks and thins. All that I have now is because of her 100% support, plus her love and care to me. I really appreciate it.I will never forget the days you woke up early to sit at my side when I did my revision before the test. Thanks Jee…
Not forgetting Pa and Liang who gave me enough space to burst out myself when I was extremely stress before the examinations.
Thanks to all my subject teachers and tutors for their guidance, words of advice and all the information needed. With all your notes and paints on the whiteboard, I finally completed my SPM. (though I didn’t get straight A+.. haha)
Many thanks to all my relatives, friends and some of my mum’s colleagues who have been so close to me. Without support from all of you, I am sure I can’t get through this hard time alone that optimistically.
Thank you so much! I love you all!!!
Life is not as relieved and free as I thought after I got my SPM result. I was extremely tired, confused and lost when it comes to decision making. I was unable to make up my mind on what to do next as I was running out of options! I was thinking to apply scholarships here and there as one of my friends told me to apply as many as I can to get myself more choices later. I then considered IPTS as most IPTA requires Form Six. At this point of time, a lot of internal confusion going on. I consider my family’s financial background too. I was like wandering aimlessly in a thick jungle without having a compass, unable to decide what to choose, where to go, don’t know how to proceed. I tossed and turned in bed every night and had different ways in seeing things after every nap. Words can’t describe how worried I was these few days.
Luckily, God comes in. He sends me a digital compass… Haha! I was guided to the right path by Ellepo. Ellepo gave me advice to stay calm and focus on my goal and dream. In three days time, I was brought to the state library to borrow some books related to fields I might be interested in, went to education fair to get more info on my chosen field and so on. I got explanations from her and had a clearer picture on what I want. Not only that, I was brought to talk to counselors and professionals to seek for opinions. I got calls and messages from relatives and friends. They were all very concern about what I chose and wanted to know what I had decided. Thanks to all…
After few days struggling on that, I started to see more light and make up my mind to be brave and strong to take up whatever challenges I am going to face. I decided to go back to school for Form Six if I don’t get any of those applications approved. I will work hard and try my very best to achieve my next goal. Hope that I can be more mature and get the second chance to have my scholarship after Form Six. Good luck to me.. =)

Posted by: Wing

第一步

人与人之间的相处，不能双方面都被动，一定要有一方是主动的。谁先跨出第一步并不重要，重要的是有没有人愿意主动，走那第一步。要是两个人都很倔强，很固执，那这份友谊或许就会这样不了了之，两个人也可能会由好友变敌人，知己变陌生人。
自私的我们常常为自己的不主动找了很多借口，因为认为自己先主动会很丢脸，很没面子。女生会觉得害羞，认为男生应该是主动的那一方；而男生又会觉得自己先开口很没男子气慨，超没出息。在这种情况下，我们很有可能就这样失去了一段美好又珍贵的友情。
在失去以后才来挽回，不是不可以，而是可能一切都已经改变了，不一样了。时间可能已经把友情淡化，彼此的仇恨也可能会日亦加深。当彼此在另一方的心里不再重要时才来后悔，又有什么用呢？
请珍惜眼前人！不要常为自己找不想跨出第一步的理由。勇敢争取自己的一切，属于自己的幸福吧！
谢谢你勇敢跨出了我们友谊之间的第一步，那是多么伟大的举动啊！为我们友谊的更新好好庆祝一番吧！愿我们的友谊长久，也希望你幸福快乐，心想事成！
友谊万岁！=)

Posted by : Wing

CRY

I'm the kind of person who cry easily. I cry of no obvious reasons. It can just happen even over the phone or internet when I talk to friends about remembering past times or when watching a sad movie.
When I'm overjoy, excited, in pain, feel scared, lost, confused, sad, something happen unexpected, separations, unmet expectations... any emo reactions you can think of. I end up crying.
Anything can cause me to cry. I really can't stop my tears at all once they have started. It's impossible to just stop when I know I'm about to cry. I want to cry less. Really. Or be able to control my tears.
I know crying is healthy and a good way to relieve stress. It's better than bottling it all up inside but I'm a big girl now, and big girls don't cry.
Oh anybody, please help! How to stop me from crying???





Posted by : Wing

希蒂

最近女儿一直把自己叫成希蒂。
她说 ：在外面工作一段时间之后，该留在家里做妈妈的希蒂了。也就是说，在 SPM 成绩未揭晓之前，做妈妈的钟点女佣。
所谓的钟点女佣就是当我配合她这新创的玩意，打开嗓子大喊希蒂的时候，她就随传随到。然后对我嘻皮笑脸的问 ：希蒂在这儿，要我做点什么吗?
唉！原来这希蒂是不会自动自发的。
“希蒂，帮我拖地。”
“没问题，我这就去。”
还没开始就把地拖给弄断了，然后一脸无辜的表情 ：“怎么会断了呢？现在的地拖可真没品质啊！” 地板拖不成，却怪罪地拖不好，结果是我这老妈子来收拾残局。
叫希蒂把衣服拿出去晒，她说怕后院很多壁虎，又怕强烈的阳光晒黑皮肤。(她皮肤也够黑的！哈哈！)
叫她扫地，又说会腰酸背痛。唉！真拿她没办法。
不过，希蒂也有可爱之处。她会把弟弟的书桌收拾整齐，碗碟洗得清洁发亮，衣服也叠得整齐又有规律。
我每天放工回家，她已打开大门迎接我，让我有一种欣慰的感动，就像用自动式的铁门一样。踏进屋里，桌上摆着一盘已切好的水果，等着我去享用。
元宵节的那一顿饭，也是她煮的。虽然不是什么大鱼大肉，可那一餐饭却吃得开心又感动。终于有机会坐着等吃女儿亲自煮的一餐。
我家的希蒂是用再高的佣金也聘请不到的。她可真是独一无二啊！

Posted by : Ellepo