Family Photo~~~

Nice or not? Surprise!!! =) Happy New Year 2012~~~

We are happy family~~~ xD

SSPCA

My colleague Ling asked me to accompany her to a place - SSPCA.
I was asking: What is the meaning of SSPCA and what does it stand for?
She answered: You just follow and you'll find it out yourself.
This is my first time going and the moment we reached that place, there is a big signboard -
The Sarawak Society for the Prevention of cruelty to animals.
Oh, so we are coming here.
Few months ago, a pregnant stray cat went into her house and gave birth to 3 kittens. Now she's troubled with these cats pooping in her neighbour's garden, pissing everywhere, spoilt their plants.....so on. Her neighbour has been complaining and mentally harassing her to abandon the cats.
There are hundreds of cats and dogs there waiting for adoption. They would be put to sleep if nobody adopt them. Sometimes we human are really cold and heartless.
After a short visit there, there is no words to express my feelings.
Myself and both my children had a painful parting experience when we kept hamster as pet. Then on, there is a rule in our house : NO pet is allowed.

posted by : ellepo

Try hard to be in your shoe

最近我和大姐的沟通出现了一些问题。

一直以来，我都是在扮演“听”的角色。我尝试以你的观点去了解你的心情和处境，用耐心和爱心去明白，关怀你。而且也尽量配合在精神上给于鼓励。但是我不能避免偶尔在想法和理念方面会和你有所不同。当我给以一些不一样的意见时，你的情绪就会突然的转变，一下子失控。好好的一场姐妹谈论，往往就变成了辩论，然后你就会把我过去无心的错误，一下子全搬出来指证我，最后闹得不欢而散，把彼此之间的关系搞得很僵。

我每天都有很多的事情要处理，还要拨出时间去聆听你蔢媳之间的问题。我每次都有配合，很用心去听，甚至试着去穿你的鞋子（虽然我不可能穿的下）。

对不起，也许我是太理性了。如果你再找我谈，我会试用感情进入你的内心世界里。

我真的很在乎我们的姐妹情。

也许会搁上好一段时间吧！

Posted by: ellepo

i m sick...

I am sick, of being me....

That's embarrassing!!!

Know what? I broke Jane's bed.

The weather last night was damned hot. I turned on her bedroom's air cond., relaxing myself on her bed. Half-way on facebook enjoyed viewing Tionia and her sweeties' Australia trip photos, I heard a loud sound and suddenly found myself was tumbled down.

Oh! Oh! The bed is broken!!!

I took a close look at the bed and found that a few pieces of the long, thin piece of metal attached to the main support were broken. The metal parts are all welded and not screwed to the main support. It's obviously not built to stand my body weight!!!Lao Lao quickly used nylon string to tighten all the broken metal pieces to the main support for temporary use or else Jane has to switch to sleeping on the floor.

When seeing this, Liang was talking humorously to himself: pity your bed la cheh, not only it has to support giant size human, it has to accomodate all those animals that spread around you. Sigh......
Oops, I'm sorry.

Jane, that's embarrassing!!!

posted by:ellepo

Legal Festive Robbers

I was stopped by a police at a road block yesterday afternoon and he accused me for not having my seat belt fastened.
I had been using a seat belt since the very first day I drove a car irrespective of police presence. Don't you all know that I am a good citizen and I comply to the traffic law? For my own safety benefits too....
The police kept asking me the same question : You just answer me, did you use your seat belt?
Inside my heart : What a stupid question? See with your own eyes la....my seat belt is properly, comfortably worn....
I answered him : YES
He kept repeating the same question and my answer is still firm : YES
Emm..... I got it! The smell of corruption......
They are just the "legal festive robbers"

Monday Blues!!!

I hate Mondays.....
I am feeling so reckless and do not have the mood to do anything.
I've yawned countless times since this morning......
My head is getting heavier
My eyes can hardly open
I feel very tired and weak
Oh! Am I getting sick?
Or it is just Monday Blues???

posted by: ellepo

SAD

My emotions these few days are beyond control, going up and down like a rollercoaster.

Out of nothing, there'll be a sudden anger outburst and the problem is I hurt the people I love the most.

I'm feeling pretty sad. I know it affects all of us and quite disruptive in a way to our life pattern.

Tell me, anyone?

What should I do???

posted by: ellepo

???!!!

Life is never easy.....the pain, the evil.......
And too many things to handle....
conflicts, health issues, relationships, unmet needs,
financial issues... arrrh!!! stressful and frightening,
ageing family members....need increase care and planning.....

What am I supposed to do?
Worry, depress, cry, go round and talk about it?

NO!!! Let's fight the battle......
live a simple life - living one day at a time
accept the things that I can't change
appreciate what I already have
practice to be more humble
take up life challenges
and most importantly
TRUST GOD & PRAY TO HIM

posted by: ellepo

3.1.2011 - Not A Good Day

今天心情糟透了！

原本以为新的一年，新的开始 ，新的发型，新的装扮，统统换新的，希望今年会比去年好。

可是一天里，接二连三的消息传来都是离别，而且个个都是工作好拍挡，喝茶好伙伴。

Probably today is a sad day for me. (sorry i have to continue with English as i can do it faster)

Early in the morning, I started with counting my dear colleagues who are going to retire from the work place - Lim Da Ge, Lau, Bang Lan, Glo....

Then Bang Lan informed me that Ling Ling might be leaving, followed by the news that Cil and August will be leaving soon to another unit.....

Oh no, the group is getting smaller again!!!

I was the one who asked for inter unit transfer in the first place due to the distant from home to office. It ends up almost everybody is going, leaving me behind with Liew and all those people who I am sick with.

My request was not entertained due to the importance of my job functions. My boss said he can't release me. Some idiots stay back eventhough boss wanted to let go of them so much but no unit wants to take them. What the heck does it mean? I have to work with all those idiots who only know how to talk big and act sweet, doing nothing and count down for "Agong's Day" only every month?

Sad, very very sad.....

Bidding adieu to a close colleague is often heartbreaking. But it is a fact that I must admit in order to move on with life.

So sad that you all are leaving soon. This work place won't be the same anymore. I' ll never forget the happy moments, the arguements, the coffee breaks and the gatherings.....
Seriously, I'll miss all of you. That's so very true.

I wish you all plenty of smiles, blue skies.... now and always. Be healthy and happy wherever you go, whatever you do.

posted by : ellepo