罗玲 is a very angry woman and I am lazy to explore the reasons why.
It's natural that we feel angry and everybody does.
But one thing, our anger must be in TINY amounts and last for SHORT period of time. Don't hang on for weeks, months and years! Its not good for your health.
Anger is just a reaction to unmet expectations! Don't transfer the responsibility for your emotion to people with exaggerated statements and say hurtful things.
No matter how angry you are, DON'T say things you don't mean. There may be no going back from that.
Be a person with high EQ! Learn to forgive...
Posted by : Ellepo
Monday, 25 January 2010
Thursday, 21 January 2010
用爱换爱
最近我常想,怎么elle老老的缺点越来越多呢?我开始嫌弃他,感到很不耐烦。
如果他可以改变,我的日子就会好过点。相处了20多年,就不可以为我而改变吗?
女儿反问:“先别说elle老老,你能够改变自己吗?”
是的,我可以从今天开始放弃驾快车、闯红灯的习惯吗?
我可以学习不再埋怨吗?
我可以从今天起不再为小事而发怒、大声责备吗?
哇!我连改变自己都那么困难,我用什么理由要elle老老为我改变?
我一直埋怨,如果他不这样,我就不会那样。如果他听我讲,我就不会乱发脾气。如果他对我好一点,我就会对他更好。
为什么我从没想过我是不是应该对他温柔一点,耐心一点,说话小声一点,毕竟他是真的很老很老了。
终于想通了。我们只能够拿同等份量的东西交换另一种东西。
用爱换爱...
Posted by : Ellepo
如果他可以改变,我的日子就会好过点。相处了20多年,就不可以为我而改变吗?
女儿反问:“先别说elle老老,你能够改变自己吗?”
是的,我可以从今天开始放弃驾快车、闯红灯的习惯吗?
我可以学习不再埋怨吗?
我可以从今天起不再为小事而发怒、大声责备吗?
哇!我连改变自己都那么困难,我用什么理由要elle老老为我改变?
我一直埋怨,如果他不这样,我就不会那样。如果他听我讲,我就不会乱发脾气。如果他对我好一点,我就会对他更好。
为什么我从没想过我是不是应该对他温柔一点,耐心一点,说话小声一点,毕竟他是真的很老很老了。
终于想通了。我们只能够拿同等份量的东西交换另一种东西。
用爱换爱...
Posted by : Ellepo
My Birthday
1月20日是我的破蛋日。
从考完SPM开始,妈妈带我买的每一件衣服,每一件东西,我都把它们当成是我的生日礼物。衣服、鞋子、手链、耳环、包包... 羡慕我吧?哈!
这天老毛病又重犯,妈妈拿了半天的假,带着兴致勃勃的我和大姨,逛遍几家卖衣店。妈妈荷包大出血,我大大有收获。Yeah! Jee 还买了我最爱吃的kuih momo,在盒子上写着- Happy Birthday Sweetie... 我知道您很努力是想逗我开心,好让我有个最美好的回忆。您成功啦!谢谢你 jee... =)
我们过后还买了一粒 tiramisu 蛋糕和一些丰富的菜肴回家吃。大家聚在饭桌前唱生日歌给我,好感动喔!连爸爸和 elleby 也有加入... Jee, liang, 谢谢你们哦!
这两天登入了面子书(facebook), 朋友们也一一献上生日祝福语。我算过了。手机收到的短信、面子书的短语祝福和收到的伊妹儿,我一共累积了60多个祝福! Whao... O.O 谢谢你们大家.
I am eighteen!!! Know what does that mean? I am going to have a new IC and is free to do anything and everything I want which people below 18 longed to do but they can't... Hahaha!
I can drive, can take alcoholic drinks without my parents' guidances, watch 18SX films.... Bla bla bla... I can do anything that I wanted to do for the past 17 years but restricted by rules and regulations…. Yeah!!! =P
However, I must be willing to take responsibility for my own actions and not to do what I am not supposed to.. Em... Clear.. Haha.. From now onwards, I am going to take up all the consequences of every action I do. Be mature and act grown-up. Good luck!!!
Posted by: Wing
从考完SPM开始,妈妈带我买的每一件衣服,每一件东西,我都把它们当成是我的生日礼物。衣服、鞋子、手链、耳环、包包... 羡慕我吧?哈!
这天老毛病又重犯,妈妈拿了半天的假,带着兴致勃勃的我和大姨,逛遍几家卖衣店。妈妈荷包大出血,我大大有收获。Yeah! Jee 还买了我最爱吃的kuih momo,在盒子上写着- Happy Birthday Sweetie... 我知道您很努力是想逗我开心,好让我有个最美好的回忆。您成功啦!谢谢你 jee... =)
我们过后还买了一粒 tiramisu 蛋糕和一些丰富的菜肴回家吃。大家聚在饭桌前唱生日歌给我,好感动喔!连爸爸和 elleby 也有加入... Jee, liang, 谢谢你们哦!
这两天登入了面子书(facebook), 朋友们也一一献上生日祝福语。我算过了。手机收到的短信、面子书的短语祝福和收到的伊妹儿,我一共累积了60多个祝福! Whao... O.O 谢谢你们大家.
I am eighteen!!! Know what does that mean? I am going to have a new IC and is free to do anything and everything I want which people below 18 longed to do but they can't... Hahaha!
I can drive, can take alcoholic drinks without my parents' guidances, watch 18SX films.... Bla bla bla... I can do anything that I wanted to do for the past 17 years but restricted by rules and regulations…. Yeah!!! =P
However, I must be willing to take responsibility for my own actions and not to do what I am not supposed to.. Em... Clear.. Haha.. From now onwards, I am going to take up all the consequences of every action I do. Be mature and act grown-up. Good luck!!!
Posted by: Wing
长大
我长大了! Yeah!!!!!!
人说女大18变,有三变- 变美、变瘦、变得会有点女人味... 哈! 我怎么没察觉自己有如此的改变啊?
妈妈说一个人最重要的就是给别人第一眼的感觉,而这感觉并非从外表来判断,而是要看一个人的气质。所谓气质就是一个人的品德修养、待人处世的态度、如何在别人面前表达自己、表现自己等... 一个人无须有西施般的长像、不必时时穿戴名牌,要是金玉其外,败在其中,又有什么用呢?
我了解,也很同意这一点。我会努力做好自己,做一个有气质的人。
Posted by : Wing
人说女大18变,有三变- 变美、变瘦、变得会有点女人味... 哈! 我怎么没察觉自己有如此的改变啊?
妈妈说一个人最重要的就是给别人第一眼的感觉,而这感觉并非从外表来判断,而是要看一个人的气质。所谓气质就是一个人的品德修养、待人处世的态度、如何在别人面前表达自己、表现自己等... 一个人无须有西施般的长像、不必时时穿戴名牌,要是金玉其外,败在其中,又有什么用呢?
我了解,也很同意这一点。我会努力做好自己,做一个有气质的人。
Posted by : Wing
Wednesday, 20 January 2010
Happy Birthday
感谢上主在18年前的今天给了
我一份很特别的礼物,那就是你...
愿所有的快乐,所有的幸福,
所有的温馨,所有的好运,
都围在你身边...
生日快乐!
Time for you to take centre stage.
Hope you have all the fun in the world,
my pretty "Beauty Queen"...
As you turn eighteen!!!
Happy Birthday!!!
Posted by : Ellepo
我一份很特别的礼物,那就是你...
愿所有的快乐,所有的幸福,
所有的温馨,所有的好运,
都围在你身边...
生日快乐!
Time for you to take centre stage.
Hope you have all the fun in the world,
my pretty "Beauty Queen"...
As you turn eighteen!!!
Happy Birthday!!!
Posted by : Ellepo
Tuesday, 19 January 2010
珍惜
深深哀悼...
槟城钟灵中学龙舟意外事件夺走了六条生命。前途无量且可能是国家栋梁的六个人才男生在转眼之间就与世长辞,留无一言一语。让我们大家为他们祈祷,能安息于九泉。
人的生命是如此短暂及脆弱。现在跟我们一起笑哈哈的人,可以在下一秒毫无交代的就离我们而去。
停止斗角,互相利用。珍惜在身边的每一个人。在忙碌的生活中,不忘关心及爱护家人和朋友。别到失去时才来后悔。太迟了...
A luxury life does not mean a happy life but a life with love is a meaningful one...
Posted by : Wing
槟城钟灵中学龙舟意外事件夺走了六条生命。前途无量且可能是国家栋梁的六个人才男生在转眼之间就与世长辞,留无一言一语。让我们大家为他们祈祷,能安息于九泉。
人的生命是如此短暂及脆弱。现在跟我们一起笑哈哈的人,可以在下一秒毫无交代的就离我们而去。
停止斗角,互相利用。珍惜在身边的每一个人。在忙碌的生活中,不忘关心及爱护家人和朋友。别到失去时才来后悔。太迟了...
A luxury life does not mean a happy life but a life with love is a meaningful one...
Posted by : Wing
麻兹 MUACHI
黏黏甜甜的 muachi 。现在我才了解你那时做 muachi 给他们吃的用意。用心良苦啊!我真迟钝。你放心吧!其实真像 muachi 一样,没有人可以代替任何一个人在彼此心目中的地位。你们要真心的对待彼此,那就能友谊永固啦!祝你们永不分离,你和你的 muachi 朋友。
Posted by: Wing
Posted by: Wing
My Future
What my future holds is still a question mark. I am not mature enough to think that far and make decision for myself. Leave everything to GOD. I believe that HE has already arranged everything for me. Meanwhile I will just have to be patient. Though our SPM results is final, I still pray that me and my friends can get good grades and may be of those lucky ones.
Posted by : Wing
Posted by : Wing
休息是为了走更长远的路
RIGHT! After 11 long years of studying, school life ends temporary for us students in Form 5. We'll have to wait for around 3 months to determine where our future lies. Don't leave your life blank. Some of us work for cash money as well as gaining some life experiences, whereas others would choose to stay home and do house chores, watch tv and stick their buttocks on the computer chair. A few had already started their A levels. Whao.......
For me, I am lucky enough to keep myself occupied for the whole month of January. I stay home most of the time to help up with the housework and to do my duties that I missed for about 4 months since 2009. My mom and bro had helped me a lot even before my zone papers started. Thanks ! I am really touched.......
I am going to start work before CNY and hope everything goes on smoothly. A big hug to my mom and aunt for getting me that job. Let me get a big "Ang Pau" for myself before CNY. Yeah ! Hope I pass my driving test too. Good luck to me !
Posted by : Wing
For me, I am lucky enough to keep myself occupied for the whole month of January. I stay home most of the time to help up with the housework and to do my duties that I missed for about 4 months since 2009. My mom and bro had helped me a lot even before my zone papers started. Thanks ! I am really touched.......
I am going to start work before CNY and hope everything goes on smoothly. A big hug to my mom and aunt for getting me that job. Let me get a big "Ang Pau" for myself before CNY. Yeah ! Hope I pass my driving test too. Good luck to me !
Posted by : Wing
Mood Swing
I'm beginnig to feel and realise what is "menopause". Somehow, I just couldn't control myself. I become very emotional, cried and cried. Later on then I realised it was like what is described as one of the symptoms.
I apologised to people around me though I don't see the need to. After all, no one can really feel how I feel !
Posted by : Ellepo
I apologised to people around me though I don't see the need to. After all, no one can really feel how I feel !
Posted by : Ellepo
小声责骂,大声称赞!
不知从什么时候起,饭桌上也开始有我嘴漏的饭粒。请谅解和包容我的改变。小声责骂! sshhh...
我也有值得被称赞的时候啊!就像昨晚我为你们准备的那香喷喷的 lemon honey chicken chop. 赞啊!好香!要大声称赞喔!
Posted by: Ellepo
爱乐家族
家庭成员介绍
爱乐婆- cool ellepo 嗨,我来了!风趣搞笑的妈妈,不介年龄辈份与我们有如朋友般一起成长。 最重视家庭的巨蟹座,是她没错!XD
爱乐wing- 贱ellewing 神秘十足,疑心病重,固执如石,冷酷似冰。天啊!我也有美好的一面吧!=p
爱乐舅- 帅 ellejiew 乖但怪!啊!可以是家里最man, 最可靠的小男人,也可以是最天真可笑的一个。不鸣则以,一鸣惊人哦!只需把面具拿下。哈! lol... T.T
爱乐比- cute elleby 最可爱的是我了。家人的注意力都在我身上。我可以是快乐魔法师,把家人逗得笑哈哈,也可以是苦恼小魔鬼,让大家哭笑不得。我虽然不属于人类,我也是爱乐家族的主角之一喔!=>
Posted by : Wing
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